Dysfunctional Relating..

...likes to ensure that those who are firmly in the grip of dysfunction do not become aware of the dysfunction itself or of the solid grip dysfunctional relating and thinking has on their psyches. Dysfunction perpetuates itself as a closed system from which no escape is possible unless the one trying to escape is willing to accept psycho-spiritual isolation as the result of the attempt.  Most give up the attempt and settle.

Because we settle, we never become capable of seeing the whole thing. 
Because we never see the whole thing, we never really understand it.
Because we never really understand it; “it” continues to infinite power.

And so it tricks us into accepting it and concluding, Well...that's just the way life is....and we can't blame others for something no one can have any control over.”