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Saturday, October 27, 2012
Dysfunctional Relating is a Form of Group Insanity
By Patricia Lefave, Monophrenic
How bad it gets depends upon the particular group with
the worst case scenario being an end point of murder/suicide/ genocide.
The point the dysfunctional normal never seem
to get is that THEY are the “people”(strangers)doing all the talking about people they most often don't actually KNOW
at ALL; people who “think” people are talking about them, and that the OBVIOUS
behaviour and contempt coming from these “people” who are doing all the
talking is completely DENIED TO EXIST.
The bitch standing at the cash register of the drug
store, two feet away, can't be saying things like “Is SHE trying
to be nice to you?” to the other cashier standing there, as it would not be
“reasonable,” according to psychiatry for the bitch at the cash register who is
standing there SAYING that to be doing so. I AGREE. It is not
reasonable. But the fact that it is not reasonable does not “prove” that the
bitch standing at the cash register two feet away is not doing that. It
just proves that the bitch standing at the cash register is a bitch, and that
the bitch is justifying herself by blaming the perceptions/reactions of her
target.. Most of the time of course, the cash register bitches only direct that
kind of contempt at socially sanctioned targets. If a psychiatrist is the one
going through the check out, the bitch is all sweetness and friendly smiles
because the psychiatrist is not an officially socially sanctioned target
for the expression of unrestrained, bitch behaviour.
The chronic talkers and evaluators ask EACH OTHER,
“what’s the big deal? Why can't “they” ever get over anything?
“They,” who are making the big deal out of it, have
had the right to the control of their own minds and lives taken away from them
because “they” have been told that you who ask the question and show your
contempt for “them”, do NOT do what you do as it would not be reasonable for
you to act the way you do! Are you getting the self serving tautology there OK?
“They” are trapped by your DENIAL and your self serving reality Splitting.
There is no “they” which represent a group of defectives. “They” are you and
often “they” are often in BETTER psycho-spiritual shape than those who are so
contemptuous of “them.”
So we are all right on a certain level of it:
the whole experience DOESN'T make any sense.But for as long as the observation of senselessness does
NOT ever get applied to the bitch standing at the cash register,and ONLY gets applied to the one on the receiving
end of it, target who “claims” it exists, the real problem won't be identified
for what it is, or ever get resolved. That of course, is just how the
cash register bitches of the world want it because that supports and
enables them and costs THEM nothing. It is a great form of emotional catharsis
that gets social approval. It is also known as scapegoating except that this
kind does not get identified as such. How it gets defined is more like this:
the targets of the group behaviour get told they are living in a fantasy
world, believing that they are being talked about and harmed by others and that
people they don't even know, are doing that, and their beliefs are just
paranoia and not reality based at all.
In reality the whole GROUP involving itself has CREATED
a fantasy world ABOUT the targets because the group members believe that they
are not seen, heard or understood by these inferiors whom they, in fact, don't
really knowand that the group's beliefs
about these inferiors are justified and that the fantasy world they made up
themselves IS reality. This is paradox, created and defined by group consensus
and supported by an authority that is in denial about the whole phenomenon.
Messages off the T.V. From the Collective Unconscious
The Observers caught up to Peter who
discovered, to his horror, that the Observers have manipulated the police in
this future time, to co-operate with them in rounding up those who try to keep
the Observers from invading their minds.
From the series Fringe
this group, often seen as “normal,” routinely delude themselves that the people
they see as their inferiors do not really know the Splitters are talking
about them from four feet away. Further, they also delude themselves that their
destructive gossiping and “story” telling cannot really have a negative
impact on the lives and minds of those they are using as their “subject” or, if
it does, it is just what the subject “deserves” anyway. The word itself and all
the attitudes that accompany it, is reductionist in nature. They have to
be to sustain the illusion/delusion of those seeing themselves as
“observers” of lesser beings.
their subject's mind, life, reputation, income etc, is destroyed by group
action, the Splitters make sure they see no connection at all to
themselves and to what they do. Instead, they view the “subject's”
deteriorating life as “proof” that the subject IS indeed their inferior, and
that they are truly objective observers of lesser beings, and are those who are
just telling it like it is.
Coup de Gras that Seals the Deal
Often our Permanent Fate as Genetic Defectives
“defective” one is broken under pressure, the entire experience with the
“others” who can never be blamed, is denied to have ever existed at all.
How then does the authority doing the assessing of the situation get rid of
that, annoying, ongoing reporting of it done by the defective one?
using the “Explain Away.”
victim, who only “thinks” she's a victim, or who is only saying she is a
victim, says that BECAUSE she has a mental illness that causes her to actually
BELIEVE she has been harmed by others, or perhaps a mental illness that is more
like a“character disorder” which causes
he to “claim” she has been harmed by others, which she “claims” just for the
sake of “seeking attention.”
really now, why would those really nice, outgoing Doublers, those
everyone likes, want to DO such a thing when they would have no reason
to do so, which of course, in itself, “proves” they did not do anything,
since the whole world is operating on logic, or “reason.” This often also
“proves” that a group assault on an individual , an assault which never really
existed of course, was justified!
is what I call magical thinking.
actually FROM this planet?
mental illness system seems to be focused mainly on the idea that no one
should ever be blamed for anything and that we are all at the mercy of our own,
or someone else's, bad biology, and all helpless to do anything about it or to
change our own minds.To further promote
this construct, we most often end up in a collective state in which
abusers/aggressors are seen as blameless because their bad brains made them do
it AND those who complain of being on the receiving end of abuse can't
really be blamed either as they too have bad brains that cause them to
“think” they have been targeted, and harmed by “others” when “really” they
the time these diagnoses are arrived at in the first ten to fifteen, cost
effective minutes after your first sit down in a psychiatrist’s office and
there is no interest shown in finding out concretely if what the
individual says is actually true or not, especially if a group of
people get consulted who think they know best.
me, is akin to detectives having a working theory, which is necessary to start
to “detect” truth, but then not bothering to investigate at all, or to find any
evidence one way, or the other,since it
is too costly to investigate, and instead, doing everything possible to
make the suspect “fit” into the theory so you don't have to see any
evidence that the theory is wrong. After all, if wrong, you might have
to give it up and start over. Besides, how would the detective LOOK to the
public if s/he had to admit s/he was wrong about something? To avoid that
then, we send innocent people directly to jail or perhaps a mental
institution, while allowing the real criminal who did the crime to stay
unidentified and free to do it again with impunity.
what first appears to be “cost effective” turns out to be very costly
indeed, to everyone involved especially to those who are blamed BY others for
“blaming others,” as an abstraction, in absolute terms except of course, when
the others doing the blaming of the individual do it; then, it's different.
Ironically, this query
often comes from those who are swallowing mood altering drugs for years
on end as they just can't cope with people who are making a big deal out of
their own experiences....????
he is the nexus person
connecting two different dimensions. He is the only one who does not
have a mirror image of himself living in the other dimension.